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updated:  September 19, 2008

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Want to find out about your family history and don't know where to start

 

Here are a few of my suggestions:
(Let me know if you have any research tips and ideas to add to this page.)

Table of Contents

What is genealogy?
How to start building your own family tree
A few common questions
Free resources
Not so free resources
Types of records to search
Where to create a family tree website
A few words of wisdom
RSS feeds


 

What is genealogy?  It is the study of one's family history (ancestry), tracing back through generations of relatives.

How to start building your own family tree 

To start you out I have created a Family Group Worksheet that you can use to start collecting information.  Click here for the Excel format or the online submission form.

The National Genealogical Society - http://www.ngsgenealogy.org/edugetstart.cfm
LDS Family History Library  - http://www.familysearch.org/Eng/Home/Welcome/frameset_information.asp  they also offer a free genealogy program.

Learn some basics at Ancestry.com - http://www.ancestry.com/learn/start/main.htm

If you'd like to learn some more, visit Cyndi's List (http://www.cyndislist.com/beginner.htm) an overwhelming amount of links to help you learn about getting started.  I consider Cyndi's List the "Internet phonebook "of genealogy links

A few common questions:

Genealogy definitions and terms - just so you don't get lost or confused along the way!

What is a first cousin, once removed?

The type of cousin describes the person with whom one has in common two grandparents and their ancestors, the removed indicates the generation difference.   Click here for an expanded definition of relationships. 

Do I need software?

To help you get started, determine your plan of action to keep organized with all of the information you will be collecting.  I use Family Tree Maker to document my family tree. Another popular one is the The Master Genealogist.  There are many other software programs out there to pick from, here’s a site that compares the software, although I can’t guarantee the accuracy:  http://genealogy-software-review.toptenreviews.com/  There are some free programs and demos out there as well if you want to try them out before you buy them.

What is a GEDCOM?

The simple definition at Wikipedia:   GEDCOM is a specification for exchanging genealogical data between different genealogical systems. GEDCOM is an acronym for GEnealogical Data COMmunication  Click here to find out more about GEDCOMs.  In layman's terms, when you use a genealogy software program (for the most part), it is saved with the extension GED at the end (for example, a Word Document ends with doc and and Excel spreadsheet ends with xls).  This is the universal genealogy computer coding for software programs so that you can exchange your data with others or post it online.

Places that you can post your GEDCOM so that others can find you, most of these sites allow you to build your tree online without having to install software on your computer (most of these are free):  Please read the Standards for Sharing Information with Others from the National Genealogical Society.

Ancestry *
RootsWeb *
FamilySearch
MyTrees.com (or Kindred Konnections)
GenCircles
Genealogy.com
OneFamilyTree
GenesReunited *
OneGreatFamily

* I have had a lot of success with connecting to people using these websites.

How do I find out which books contain information about my ancestors?

I usually go to some of the genealogy book websites or historical societies and do searches by either surname or by location.  I set up searches on a variety of websites and have alerts sent to me via email when there is a match.  For example, many people sell family bibles and other “found” family memorabilia from yard sales, etc on eBay, so I’ve set up a few alerts there.  I’ve found out about other books by scouring the web and, of course, others informing me of the books.  I try to find a connection in most of the locations where my ancestors lived, most of the time they are unrelated to me, and these individuals have a wealth of knowledge they love to share.  Here are some of the sites that I frequently use to find books:  AbeBooks and  Genealogical.com,  You can also go to Google and perform keyword searches on books, they also provide a list of where you can obtain a copy of the book.  I also keep track of family heirlooms that have been recently found at  http://boards.ancestry.com/mbexec?htx=board&r=rw&p=topics.heirlooms

Communication is an important key

One of the most important pieces is to communicate.   I have attempted to post on many message boards to find others who may be related.  In the process of my postings,  I have either received those who want to help me when I’m stumped and have no idea where to go, others who have offered to do some research for me, and I have found cousins along the way – my favorite part. I have found that you will meet some of the kindest people in the genealogy community, there are a few bad apples, but for the most part everyone is very friendly and helpful.  I think what frustrates everyone the most is when someone posts a very generic posting that pretty much wants someone to wave a wand and have someone else do their family tree for them.  Respond to posting with kindness and if you can offer assistance to someone, do it!   There are a lot of message boards out there to post your queries, however, here are the two most popular:  Ancestry (Rootsweb and Ancestry message boards are one in the same) and Genealogy.com,  So you don't have to go visit these sites all the time to see if anyone has posted something that may be related to you, sign up for "My Notifications" for each message to receive either a summary of activity on the board or the posting in your email.  You can also sign up for mailing lists, here are a few to review:  Rootsweb Mailing Lists, Brickwalls,  and PIE for Italian Genealogists, do an internet search and you will find plenty more!

I have also attempted to locate family members and have written them "old-fashioned" letters.  The letter identifies who I am, how we could be related, why I am contacting them, what it is I am looking for, I request contact information for other family members who may be able to assist me, and all of my contact information.  I sometimes include a Family Group Sheet for them to complete.  Most of the time I include a Self Addressed Stamped Envelope.  I usually use Veromi to locate individuals, although you won't find me listed since I have had my information unlisted for a number of years.  It's a hit or miss on whether or not I receive any correspondence back and sometimes I receive the letter back that the post office cannot forward, however, when I do receive a response it is worth more to me than the postage I paid for the letters that did bounce back to me.

Sign up for genealogy newsletters for education and to stay on top of what's new in the genealogy world!  Here are a few:  Kerry's Newsletter, Dear Myrtle, Eastman's, Rootsweb, Ancestry, DeadFred, Family Tree Magazine, My Ancestors Found, Ancestor Seekers, New England Ancestors, and Origin Network

Free resources:

Social Security Death Index
LDS Family History Library
Rootsweb
Charts - these will help you write out what you know today
Ellis Island
US GenWeb
Library of Congress
The National Archives
Introduction to the US Census and the US Census Bureau
DAR
Family Tree Magazine - although not free, you can pick it up at most stores that carry magazines, it has some interesting articles and provides information for everyone. 

Other freebies:
Family Tree Magazine

Search for Ancestors Freebies
Genealogy Links UK
CensusDiggins
Ancestral Findings
 

What I use in addition to the above links (some of these charge for a subscription):

Ancestry.com
NEHGS
Genealogy.com

To find recent obituaries I use the following links:  www.obitsarchive.com and www.legacy.com

Search for libraries, genealogy and historical societies, in the area you are researching, most have a wealth of information and they are an invaluable resource.  You can also visit my Genealogy Sites page where I have compiled my frequently accessed websites to help me research my family tree.

Here are some ideas of records that can help you in your research:

The list is endless and these are a few that I could think of immediately, let me know if you have any to add!

Birth / Baptism Records Death Records Social Security Death Index
Newspapers Cemetery Records Census Records
Land Records Voter records Yearbooks
Military Records Obituaries Prison/jail Records
Immigration Records Marriage / Divorce Records City Directories
Passenger Records Social Security Application Bible Records
Court Records Probate Records Books

Where can I create a family tree website that's inexpensive or free?

There are a lot of companies out there that will allow you to build a website for free without the knowledge of writing HTML code.  Go to Google and enter in "free website".  Please read the Standards for Sharing Information with Others and Guidelines For Publishing Web Pages On The Internet from the National Genealogical Society.  Also, please read "What is a GEDCOM?" above for more information on where to post your GEDCOM file. Here are a few websites that are geared specifically to family trees:

Ancestry
Rootsweb

TribalPages
MyFamily
Famoodle
Tribal Junction

A few words of wisdom that I have learned through the years

Document every little piece of information that you obtain with the who, what, where, when, and how information.  Whether the information is from a family member and you have no proof yet, it may provide a clue later on down the road on where to search for a record that is eluding you.  Also, collect pictures and document them from family members (scan them and give them back), document stories/memories, etc., I wish I had done that prior to my grandparents passing away.  You will find that others in your family have no interest whatsoever in your family tree and they may have some pieces of information that may help, there is one in every family tree.  I have a family member who has family photos that are quite old; they avoid any communication I send to them.  I don’t give up and just hope that one day I’ll be successful.  I recently helped a friend get started on her family tree; she invited her siblings over for dinner and I would quietly ask random, open-ended questions to get the conversations going, they went on for a number of hours reminiscing about family members.  I documented like crazy and attempted to record much of it, she hopes to be able to share it with her son when he gets older.

Create your own home page using RSS feeds

For those that are more advanced, this is how I keep track of updates that are continually going on with Genealogy. To create your custom homepage using RSS feeds from other websites.  Create an account on Yahoo, click on "My Yahoo" and then "Add Content" link (top left), click "add RSS by URL" (top right), paste the feed link listed on the website (it's usually an orange button with the letters RSS).  If you are interested in a certain topic you can search Google for feeds, IE:  genealogy rss  - basically any topic and then add RSS on the end.  Also, at some of the sites there is a Yahoo RSS button you can click to have the feed automatically added to your homepage.  Click here to learn more about RSS.  Here are a few RSS feeds that I have on my homepage: 

Genealogy Blog
Dear Myrtle - has a Yahoo button to add the feed
Eastman's

Genealogy Guy's

 

Feel free to send me an email if you need some help or have questions.
 

Good Luck!!
 

 


Kerry A. Kelley

Kerry@kerry-kelley.com

www.kerry-kelley.com

Last Updated: 09/19/2008

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